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Thorns & Light

Saints

Mary, and the Church that does not end at death.

Honoured, not worshipped. And if her image was once used to keep you quiet, this page is written with that in mind.

Church texts are quoted as published.
Gold-ground panel of Mary holding the child Jesus, who reaches up to draw back her veil while she looks steadily outward.

Madonna and Child, Duccio di Buoninsegna, c. 1290 to 1300.

Duccio paints an ordinary gesture: a child reaching up to pull back his mother's veil. Catholic devotion to Mary begins here, in a real relationship, not in a title.

Artwork information

Title: Madonna and Child

Artist: Duccio di Buoninsegna

Date: c. 1290 to 1300

Rights: Public domain (copyright expired)

Source record at Wikimedia Commons

Start with what she actually says

The longest speech Mary makes in Scripture is the Magnificat: God has scattered the proud, pulled the powerful off their seats, filled the hungry, and sent the rich away empty. It is prayed every evening by the Church, all over the world.

Any devotion to Mary that produces silence in the face of abuse of power has lost contact with the words she is given in the Gospel.

What Catholics believe

That Mary is the mother of Jesus, who is God: hence the ancient title Mother of God, defined at the Council of Ephesus in 431 to protect a claim about Christ, not to elevate Mary above him.

That she was preserved from sin from the first moment of her existence (the Immaculate Conception, defined 1854), and that at the end of her earthly life she was taken up body and soul into heaven (the Assumption, defined 1950).

That she prays for the Church, and that she is honoured above the other saints, but that she is a creature, saved by Christ like everyone else.

What Catholics do not believe

Catholics do not worship Mary. Worship belongs to God alone, and the Church says so explicitly.

Mary is not a fourth person of the Trinity, does not forgive sins, and does not have to be gone through in order to reach Jesus. Devotion to her is a gift offered, never a gate.

If Marian devotion was used to control you

Images of Mary have been used to demand a particular kind of femininity: silent, compliant, uncomplaining, sexually blameless, and to shame women who did not fit. Survivors of abuse have been told to be 'pure like Mary', or to suffer quietly because she did.

That is a misuse. Mary is not recorded enduring cruelty for its own sake; she is recorded consenting freely, speaking prophetically, travelling, questioning an angel, and standing at an execution.

You are free to set this devotion down for as long as you need. Prayer directly to God is fully Catholic, and always has been.

The communion of saints, in one paragraph

Catholics believe the Church is one body across death: those on earth, those being purified, and those with God. Members of a body can pray for one another. That is the whole claim.

It means you are not spiritually alone even when you are physically alone at 3 a.m. which is precisely the hour many people find this page.

The Magnificat, and the promise underneath it

Luke 1:46–55 (the Magnificat)

My soul doth magnify the Lord. And my spirit hath rejoiced in God my Saviour.

Translation: Douay-Rheims (public domain) · Full text of the opening verses shown; this translation is public domain.

Hebrews 12:1

We also having so great a cloud of witnesses over our head, let us lay aside every weight.

Translation: Douay-Rheims (public domain) · Short excerpt; full chapter linked.

Common questions

Foundational figures

Mary, Joseph, Mary Magdalene, Peter, Paul, and others the whole tradition rests on.

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