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The seven sacraments
Baptism, Confirmation, Eucharist, Reconciliation, Anointing of the Sick, Marriage, Holy Orders: in plain language.
Catholics call a sacrament an outward sign, instituted by Christ, that actually does what it signifies. Water, oil, bread, wine, words, hands, rings: physical things, because human beings are physical.
There are seven. Nobody receives all seven.
Sacraments of initiation
Baptism makes a person a member of the Church and is not repeated. Confirmation completes initiation with the gift of the Holy Spirit. The Eucharist is received repeatedly, throughout life.
Adults who want to be baptised usually join a parish process of preparation, often called OCIA or RCIA, which lasts months and involves no obligation until you choose it.
Sacraments of healing
Reconciliation, described on its own page. Anointing of the Sick, for serious illness, before surgery, or in old age: it can be received more than once and is not only for the dying.
Sacraments of service
Marriage, in which the couple are the ministers of the sacrament to each other. Holy Orders, by which deacons, priests, and bishops are ordained.
On marriage: the Church holds that a marriage requires free consent. A declaration of nullity (an annulment) is a finding that something essential was absent from the start, such as consent given under coercion or fear. It is not a Catholic divorce, and it does not make children illegitimate.
Nothing in Catholic teaching requires a person to remain living with a spouse who is dangerous. Separation for the safety of a spouse or children is permitted, and physical safety comes first.
Scripture behind this
Matthew 11:28–30
Come to me, all you that labour, and are burdened, and I will refresh you.
Translation: Douay-Rheims (public domain) · Full passage shown because this translation is in the public domain.
Questions people actually ask
If you want one next step
- If you were never baptised or confirmed and want to be, ask your local parish about its OCIA/RCIA process.
- If you are in a dangerous marriage, contact a safe advocate or shelter first; questions about annulment can wait until you are safe.
Sources
Read next
- The EucharistThe claim at the centre of Catholic life: that the bread and wine become the body and blood of Christ.
- ConfessionWhat happens in the confessional, what a priest may never do, and how to go if it has been decades.
- The MassWhat actually happens, in order, and what to do if you have never been.
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