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How to attend Mass for the first time

What happens, when to stand, and what to do if you feel lost.

Before you go

Wear whatever you own. Arrive a few minutes early and sit near the back if that feels safer: there is no assigned seating.

What happens

Roughly an hour, in two halves. First, readings from Scripture and a homily. Then the Eucharistic prayer, when Catholics believe the bread and wine become the Body and Blood of Christ.

People stand, sit, and kneel at different points. Following those around you is completely acceptable, as is staying seated.

Communion

Catholics who are prepared receive Communion. If you are not Catholic, or are not ready, you are welcome to remain in your seat or come forward with your arms crossed over your chest to receive a blessing.

Read the original sources

  • Catechism of the Catholic Church, 1345-1355